Child Custody

Chattanooga Child Custody Lawyers

Helping You Navigate Tennessee Custody Factors

Dad with son - custody in TennesseeAt Conner & Roberts, PLLC, our Chattanooga child custody attorneys understand that the well-being of your children is crucial to protect and promote during your divorce. We are committed to helping you protect those valuable relationships you have created with your children by enforcing your parental rights and protecting your best interests, always keeping the welfare of your children in mind. We represent men and women who are facing complicated divorce matters in the Tennessee Valley and throughout the eastern and middle regions of the state.


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How Is Child Custody Determined in Tennessee?

Parents often choose “joint custody” or “joint residential parents,” during which both parents take care of their children and have access to their health and educational records. However, if the parents cannot agree on joint custody, a judge will determine which parent will be the primary residential parent while considering the following Tennessee custody factors:

  • Age of the children

Although the belief that younger children should stay with their mothers is not as prevalent as in the past, some judges will still prefer that the mother be the primary parent, especially for babies that are still being nursed.

  • Living conditions

Where a parent lives can affect custody unexpectedly. In some cases, the person who stays in the family house is preferred since it maintains stability for the children. If you are staying in a friend’s guest room until you get back on your feet after the divorce, it is unlikely that you will be designated as the primary parent. In order to spend as much time with your children as possible, you will need to make sure that your place of residence reflects that.

The distance between your home and your ex-spouse's home may also influence the situation. The closer you are, the more chances there are that the judge will order a time-sharing schedule that provides both parents with significant time with the kids.

The proximity of their school may also be an important factor.

  • Your relationship with the children before the divorce

Sometimes, parents who have not been very close with their children unexpectedly gain a strong desire to spend more time with them after the divorce. A judge may appreciate it, particularly if the person has been genuinely devoted to parenting throughout the separation. However, the judge will certainly spend some time to measure this change and make sure that this effort isn't being made to get back at the other parent.

  • Children’s preference

If the children are mature enough— about age 12 or older— the court may discuss this situation with them to understand their point of view and preferences about custody. However, children’s opinion is never the final deciding factor.

  • Gross behavior

If there’s a clear evidence that either parent has abused or neglected the children, a judge will limit that parent’s contact with the children.

Legal Custody vs Physical Custody

When a parent has legal custody of their child, that means they have the right to make major decisions about the child’s welfare and upbringing. These issues can include religion, education, healthcare, and more. When a parent has physical of their child, that means the child lives with them on a regular basis. Legal and physical custody can both be sole or joint.

How to Create Fulfilling Tennessee Custody Agreements

We understand that you want the best for your children, and we are here to help you do so by working toward creating a satisfying custody arrangement. In Tennessee, the court considers several factors when determining what type of custody will be awarded to which parent.

Tennessee custody factors include:

  • Willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate and encourage a close relationship between the child and the other parent
  • Each parent’s ability to instruct, inspire, and encourage the child
  • The strength, nature, and stability of the child’s relationship with each parent
  • Any refusal to attend a court-ordered parent education seminar
  • The disposition of each parent to provide the child with food, clothing, medical care, and education
  • Love, affection, and emotional ties that exist between each parent and the child
  • The degree to which each parent has been the primary caregiver
  • Emotional needs and developmental level of the child
  • The character and physical and emotional fitness of each parent
  • The importance of continuity in the child’s life
  • Evidence of abuse of the child or the other parent
  • The preference of the child if older than 12 years of age

What Should Unmarried Parents Expect From Child Custody Cases in TN?

To receive the same treatment as married fathers during custody disputes, unmarried fathers must prove paternity for their child, currently known as establishing "parentage" under Tennessee law.

A father not currently on a child's birth certificate or who may not have parental rights must file a petition with a court to establish parentage. A mother, child, father, or the state government itself can all file petitions to establish parentage.

If the father in question is the child's biological parent, establish parentage is typically fairly simple - the father can acquit themselves to a DNA test to verify their identity as the biological father.

However, if a father wants to claim parentage of a child who has another individual listed as their biological parent, they may have to officially adopt that child. To do so, the biological father will typically have to agree to terminate their parental rights or have their parental rights terminated by a court if it deems that they aren't fit to be a parent.

Once parenthood is established for a father, they are also generally responsible for child support (if necessary). To learn more about child support in Tennessee, visit our child support page.

Who Will the Court Favor in a Custody Dispute?

A primary concern for many married and unmarried parents is that the court may prioritize one party over the other for subjective reasons, such as their gender alignment.

Under the law, courts should not prioritize one parent over another simply by their gender or other subjective measures. The court's priority should be the child's best interests at all times, and decisions should be made based on objective evaluations of each parent's capabilities as caregivers.

If you believe the court handling your case may be making unfair judgments against you based on your gender or other non-relevant factors, speak with your attorney. They can help you take measures to rectify inappropriate treatment by the court.

Is Tennessee a 50/50 Custody State?

In Tennessee, there are several factors that are considered before determining who gets legal custody of a child. In many cases, joint custody is possible, and parents are able to negotiate a 50/50 parenting plan. 

Let Us Assist You with Your Family’s Needs

Mother with daughter - custody in TennesseeWith the best interests of your children in mind, our lawyers will collaborate with you to create a compelling case that illuminates the meaningful relationships you have with your children through photos, videos, and stories from your children to achieve the best custody results possible.

In some cases, child custody agreements can be negotiated during mediation. While this may result in fulfilling custody agreements between both parents, not all custody matters can be resolved through mediation. When an amicable agreement cannot be reached, our child custody lawyers in Chattanooga can tenaciously stand up for your rights in court. 


Don't go through a child custody dispute alone. Contact us now to schedule your FREE family law consultation with a child custody lawyer near you. Call (423) 299-4489 today!


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